Marriage & Family: Love, Barbed Wire, and Chains

Gift“Look sweetie! I brought you a present.” Mr. says.

“Oh, great! Barbed wire and chains. Just what I always wanted.” Mrs. says (with confused look).

Okay, many married and single ladies would have done one of three things: gone ballistic, run to your friends and complain, or have a long conversation with God about your compatibility and if he was really the one God created for you. On the other hand, a few would have genuinely appreciated the kind gesture and/or turned to God for wisdom as to how to make use of the new presents. They aren’t diamonds but the heart of it is still the same: love.

The wise woman builds her house, But the foolish tears it down with her own hands. Proverbs 14:1

Trust in the LORD with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. Seek his will in all you do, and he will show you which path to take. Proverbs 3:5-6

“Oh, dear God. Please give me eyes to see and ears to hear you clearly. Show me how to make use of this gift. I have no idea Lord, but I know you do.” Prays the Mrs.

Later, “I have an idea. Look what I found on Pinterest? I think we can make this ourselves. Let’s try it.” Mrs. says.

“Okay. Let me get my pliers. I knew we could use this for a project.” Mr. says.

Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful. 1 Corinthians 13:4-5

The finished product…
…and a very happy Mr. and Mrs.

Be encouaged my friends. You and your Mr. do not have to have everything in common and sometimes you will receive surprise presents like Barbed Wire and Chains (seriously). God made us uniquely different and as your husband's helpmate, you can create a wonderful atmosphere that grows you together. Just think of the great stories you can share with your friends, children, and grandchildren about the Barbed Wire Chandelier you created together. On the other hand, if you choose to go ballistic, complain to your friends, or doubt your marriage altogether, you have given his darkness an open invitation to tear down your home.

Be Blessed My Friends on your Kingdom journies!

What’s next? Horse shoes!

Prayer: Confession

ConfessionWe’ve been duped! It IS true. Confession and repentance ARE required for eternal life. This is not popular opinion around the world and in segments of the Body. The Truth remains that no amount of Church attendance, Bible studies, or other Christian works can replace these tenants (confession, repentance) of the faith. Resistance to confession and repentance = rebellion = no answered prayers = no eternal life.

Abba is looking for the indwelling of the Holy Spirit and transformed or regenerated Believer in Christ Jesus. The love of God and the love of the flesh are mutually exclusive. The world says the Bible and God are too restrictive. Or segments of the Faith purposely omit God’s truths regarding the necessity to confess and repent. God’s made it very simple for us, we choose how we live on this side eternity and the next. And yes my non Roman Catholic friends confession is for you too.

Choosing God:
Therefore, confess your sins to one another, and pray for one another so that you may be healed. The effective prayer of a righteous man can accomplish much. James 5:16

Choosing Self:
“Don’t you realize that those who do wrong will not inherit the Kingdom of God? Don’t fool yourselves. Those who indulge in sexual sin (sorry friends I know the trends and modern world tells us premarriage, engaged, dating short or long term sexual relationships are okay but not so. Marriage is a covenant with God, any sexual relationships outside of it is outside of God’s will), or who worship idols (anything or anyone put before God), or commit adultery, or are male prostitutes, or practice homosexuality, or are thieves, or greedy people, or drunkards, or are abusive, or cheat people–none of these will inherit the Kingdom of God.” 1 Corinthians 6:9-10

Thank you Abba for revealing your Truths to us. Burn away all that is not you Lord and replace our old self with the new in Christ Jesus of Nazareth. Amen

Resources: Sex and God
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Marriage & Family: Hope

morelHe does know how to cook more than pizza! It took almost a decade to witness this awesome miracle. Hang in there ladies, there’s hope for you too yet. To my darling’s credit he is an awesome grill master of pizzas and steaks.

The Menu: Cracker Crusted Morel Mushrooms (handpicked) + Egg Noodles

Bon Appetit